आरे निंदकाचे घर असावेच कशाला ?

In 17th century there was ace saint Tukaram Maharaj and he used be dedicated worshipper of his deity and a born poet. One of his poems goes like this " निंदकाचे घर असावे शेजारी " meaning the house of a critic should be in the neighborhood. This philosophy did not work in times he lived in , how on earth is it supposed to work rite now and in some situation when it seems that its working it is ignorance. This blog is meant to amputate that critic link.


People are Rocket Scientist, Doctors, Engineers , Industrialists, Politician, Street Sweepers, Toilet Cleaners and when they are nobody they are criticizers.


Look people for me there is lot of effort involved in writing a update, tweet or forget that even a sentence. If you are not interested to admire the effort went into writing a particular sentence that is not my problem and if you went on criticizing and criticizing some more efforts have to be put in to silence the critics. I only have one philosophy of life "Involve yourself so much in self improvement that the world blurs." But then sometimes u take a break only to find there are lot of criticizers for the work that u have done. Fuck you Critics !! Writing is not my source of earning livelihood, I have a full time job and I am damn happy with it. This is a passion. You condemn what you don’t understand. And if you don’t understand something how the fuck is that my problem. Even I never understood the paintings of Husain's but why would I give a damn about it.


 In same ways if u don’t want to understand why do u give a fuck to my updates with ur critical statements. I have born talent to handle critics but I never used it but times are such that I think I have to use that card. There was good reason I did not use that card. I just didn’t want to be known as the guy who is only good in handling criticism I wanted to get better in dealing with it. But when the silence is taken as ur cowardice it is high time you make full fledged effort to slap it then and there. Be a actor, dancer , writer , spot boy, tea stall owner why be a Critic?? To tell people how bad they are in work they did is not a good job. What gives u the rite and who on earth u think u are and it is not even the case of getting back at me . What have I done/not done to deserve this unending humiliation. That's it enough is enough.


Facebook is such a beautiful creation. Most of the users are overwhelmed by the fact that it helps you stay connected with your friends but people like me are more interested in making there page look good. They are less wary about the things that are happening on there TL but every time they visit FB they just go to there profile and think of the ways of improving it. Here is a revelation. When I am on FB , I update my status. Check my timeline for not more than 3 scrolls, like something smart and move on to my profile. Oh yes I forgot to mention "Not to pass a critical statement" or "like one." With that said I don’t understand ur part to get back. Apart form my profile I have three full time admirers I wont disclose the names but will give u an idea who they are
1. A High Flying Businessman atleast his twitter profile says that
2. A Doctor who happens to be school friend
3. A diplomite whom I call in moments of extreme joy or extreme depression.


I believe to the core in that these three guys are enough to point my mistakes because they have come a long long way. I respected them form orkut days , I will respect them as long as I am on any network.


This is good conversation between Joker and Harvey Dent in an epic movie The Dark Knight
"I am a dog chasing cars. Do I look like a guy with a plan. I might not know what to do when the car stops and somebody comes out. I just DO things."
In a similar manner I believe in doing things. Compliments and Complaints are not to be taken seriously , Criticism should. But to belittle people you should have accomplished something of note. When we all are strugglers here, whatz the point of being a naysayer. People write , posts photos, share updates is not called passing time. It gives a glimpse of there soul. There is no point in hurting  with sadistic comments. Think about it. I am just a fellow user of Facebook who used to write his diary once , still does and always will but at the same time considers FB ornamental and an effective tool of self improvement. I may not be as good friend as my friends think but I am definitely not as bad as criticizers think. I was very close to make my profile private and keep all the updates to myself but that would be killing the essence of beautiful thing called FB. I would still do it when I feel I want no more of criticism.Admit it wouldn't u love if u had only admirers. I know its not logical but flying 200 tons of steel was once considered a idiocracy. But Wright Brothers slammed the world by flying the first aircraft.  How are u going to get things if you don’t ask for it ? I think I have made my point to be in a virtual space  that is free from critics as long as commercial aspect is not involved .


My life was and always will be a open book , and it is not my problem if you cant read my handwriting.